Conflict is part of life. How do you solve it?

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Sept. 15, 2022

Toplumsal barış, bir barış anlaşmasından önemli

Podcastin bu bölümünde the Parents Circle’dan Robi Damelin ve Layla Alsheikh’i konuk ettim. İkisi de İsrail-Filistin arasındaki bu uyuşmazlıkta çocuklarını kaybetmiş. Acılı 600 aileden oluşan bu kuruluşta bir araya gelmişler. Karşı tarafı insan olarak görme; empati ve şiddetsizliğe inanıyorlar. Nasıl; ne zaman; niye bunları anlattılar.

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Aug. 26, 2022

Geri bildirim nasıl olmalı?

İş hayatında insanlar giderek daha fazla geri bildirim almak veya vermek zorunda kalıyor. Peki iyi bir geri bildirim nasıl olmalı? Hangi unsurları içermeli ki kişi söylenenleri duyabilsin? Bu kısa videoda bunlara değindim.

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July 29, 2022

With a Citizens' Assembly, Brexit would be different Guest: Barry O'Mahoney

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 29, 2022

In a citizens assembly, you get conflicting views without the conflict

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 26, 2022

Citizens Assembly for managing conflict Guest: Barry O’Mahoney

In this episode of the podcast, Barry O’Mahoney explains what a Citizen Assembly is; how it helped in Ireland to resolve a contentious issue like abortion; and how the process worked. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/diPQgBkxzCEvVpJYA Or you can listen in Spotify, https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Jo27xJmSZL0L5aINHSSpB?si=GScrrdNARJWHoeLHax1tmA

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July 4, 2022

How is conflict working for your organization? Guest: Cinnie Noble

In this episode of the podcast, Cinnie Noble explains what conflict coaching is; the necessary conflict competencies needed for people in management positions; how a manager's style of conflict effect new generations and more. For the whole episode, click here: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/making-managers-conflict-confident-guest-cinnie-noble?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or you can listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5yAALSK8BL2Jnmp1c1nJsp?si=NpnZkD0JTXGg-fbw1d6kaA For the…

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June 29, 2022

Force, vanquish or defeat the other side?

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Bob Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 27, 2022

Why negotiate?

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Bob Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 24, 2022

How people came to view dialogue.

In this episode of WeCanFindAWay, my guest Robert Bordone explained how he started his YouTube channel and decided to cover diverse issues of life through negotiation theory. We also discussed using negotiation in the most contentious issues in politics in the US. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/FVGX3bztrVVyFHPG7 To…

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June 6, 2022

Istanbul like 100 years ago

In this episode of the podcast, the stories of two people are presented. One is Sergey Ponomarev who is a journalist from Russia. He talks about the exodus cities of Russians. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/perspectives-on-staying-leaving-in-war?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3SyaSoRFdQyDqVwfa2rWJm?si=a2lqnIK_Tg61oGnUWMjVGQ For more on the episode and the…

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May 31, 2022

How we left for Istanbul

In this episode of the podcast, the stories of two people are presented. One is Sergey Ponomarev who is a journalist from Russia. He describes how he and other journalists left their country for Istanbul. To listen to the whole episode: https://soundcloud.com/anlasabiliriz-wecanfaway/perspectives-on-staying-leaving-in-war?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Or listen in Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3SyaSoRFdQyDqVwfa2rWJm?si=a2lqnIK_Tg61oGnUWMjVGQ For more on…

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May 29, 2022

Perspectives on staying & leaving in war, here is an excerpt from the letter of Tatyana Bilyk.

In this episode of #WeCanFindAWay, #mediator Tatyana Bilyk says that hatred in #Ukraine is due to fear, #anxiety and helplessness. As much as it helps to defend against #invasion it is also important not to turn into monsters.

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May 29, 2022

University ombuds Tom Kosakowski on what changed and what didn’t in universities.

In the latest episode of #WeCanFindAWay, I spoke with the university #ombuds Tom Kosakowski. Here is an excerpt as to how ombuds contribute to universities.

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May 27, 2022

In this episode of my podcast, I read two letters of a mediator from Ukraine. Here is an excerpt.

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May 3, 2022

"I wanted to humanize them" Guest: Jo Berry

In this episode, I spoke with Jo Berry who described how after a light weekend with ex-prisoners of the IRA, she felt betrayal.

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April 19, 2022

Making managers conflict confident Guest: Cinnie Noble

Conflict coach Cinnie Noble, describes why conflict coaching is needed for managers.

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March 2, 2022

Acı bağışlayarak nasıl yaşanır? Konuk: Figen Murray

Figen Murray, Manchester Arena bombalamasında oğlu Martyn Hett'i kaybetti. Bundan çok kısa bir süre sonra katili bağışladı. Kendisi ile bağışlamak ne demek; niye bağışlamak istedi; bu karara nasıl tepkiler aldı ve teröre karşı neler yaptığını konuştuk. Murray çalışmalarıyla hem ödül aldı hem de İngiltere'de oğlunun adını taşıyan bir kanun değişikliğinin…

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Feb. 16, 2022

Mağdur-fail arabulucuğu sonrası/After victim-offender mediation

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Feb. 7, 2022

Mahkeme karar verdi diye adalet yerine gelmiyor. (Mağdur)

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Jan. 20, 2022

Türkiye’de uzlaştırma niye onarıcı değil? Anlaşabiliriz’de son programda hepsi değerlendirildi.

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Jan. 7, 2022

Anlaşabiliriz 2021 son bölümünde, Galma Akdeniz onarıcı adaletçilerin savunduğu fikirleri açıkladı

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July 28, 2021

Non negotiation led to loss of life/Müzakere olmaması hayat kaybına neden oldu

Jack Cambria, New York Polisinde 34 yıl görev yapmış ve rehine müzakere biriminde çalışıp, eğitim vermiş. Polis bünyesinde müzakere birimi kurulmadan önceki durumu anlatıyor. Yakında Türkçesi de çıkacak.

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Jan. 19, 2021

Arabuluculukla siyasetin ortak yanları

Arabulucu John Sturrock ile yaptığımı programda arabuluculuk ile siyasetin ortak taraflarını da ele aldık. Bu küçük bir tat almanız için.

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Jan. 19, 2021

Kurumsal ombuds ne yapar?

Ombudsluk, yurtdışında artık sadece kamuyu denetleyen bir kurum olmaktan çıktı. Kurumsal anlamda da hoşa gitmeyen gerçekleri yönetime ileten kişi rolünde. Anlaşabiliriz'in son bölümünde Birleşmiş Milletler'in Fon ve Programlarından sorumlu Giuseppe De Palo ombus nedir, neler yapar, niye önemlidir anlattı. Bu küçük bir taster.

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