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March 13, 2025

Depremzedeleri dinleyecek Komisyon kurulmalı | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Depremlerden sonra kaçınılmaz olarak sorumlu arayışı başlıyor. Ancak bu sürecin mahkemelerde yapılması halinde, hem sonuç almak yıllara yayılıyor hem de ispat meseleleri gündeme geliyor. Oysa depremzedelerin bir de bununla -hele avukatsız- uğraşacak takati olmuyor. İşte bu nedenle başka ülkelerde örneği görülen komisyon fikrini ele aldım. Sadece depremzedeler değil bu süreçte…

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March 12, 2025

Kartalkaya'da yargı niye çözüm olamıyor? Konuk: Ulaş Karan | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Bolu Kartalkaya’da yaşananlar ertesi mağdur aileleri hızla bir araya geldiler, acılarını paylaştılar. Aynı zamanda adalet arayışı için yargıya yönlendirildiler. Konuğum Ulaş Karan, mağdurların yargıya yönlendirilmesinin onları yıllar sürecek bir hukuk labirentinin içine sokacağı ve bu sürecin başlı başına insanlık dışı olduğunu ifade etti. Karan, bunun sadece Türkiye’de değil başka ülkelerde…

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March 12, 2025

Community is The Strategy Guest: Emily May | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Emily May is the co-founder of 'Right To Be', an NGO that works to fight against street harassment. They designed a bystander intervention program for people that want to help anyone who is being harassed. These tactics are called 5Ds: delay; document; distract; direct and delegate. They are being consulted…

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March 12, 2025

No More Fighting Employee Conflicts Guest: Donna Douglas Williams | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Donna Douglass Williams is the Head of Ombuds at Pinterest, one of the first Ombuds programs in the tech sector. Ombuds is a confidential, impartial, informal resource that provides support to the workforce in navigating work challenges, developing constructive resolutions to conflicts and aims to promote an inspired workplace culture.…

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March 12, 2025

Restorative Walk: Healing Through Interaction With Abuser Guest: Gemma Varona |...

My guest Gemma Varona is an academic researcher at the University of the Basque Country. Gemma describes a very interesting and ground-breaking concept – ‘restorative walking’ in great detail and explains how victims of political violence or harmed persons from environmental and animal rights cases in search of justice might…

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March 11, 2025

Reconciliation Must be Part of The Peace Guests: Robi Damelin, Layla Alsheikh |...

In this episode, my guests were two women from the Parents Circle who both lost their sons due to political conflict between Israel and Palestine. Robi Damelin is the Spokesperson and Director of International Relations at the Parents Circle Families Forum and Layla Alsheikh is a member of the Parents…

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March 11, 2025

Citizens For Managing Conflict Guest: Barry O'Mahoney | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Barry O’Mahoney worked with the Irish government on managing the Facilitators and Notetakers on Citizens’ Assemblies. He explains why parliament established a Citizen Assembly in Ireland. He also talks about the benefits of a Citizens Assembly i.e creating an atmosphere so people can speak openly in a safe…

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March 11, 2025

Calling Them Evil, We Miss Their Story Guest: Bob Bordone | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Bob Bordone is an internationally recognised negotiator and the founder of the Negotiation and Mediation Clinic at Harvard Law School. He started his own YouTube channel in September 2021 where he discusses negotiation principles in many spheres in life. He explains how he decided to focus on public…

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March 10, 2025

Perspectives on Staying & Leaving During War Guests: Tatyana Bilyk, Sergey Ponomarev |...

In this episode, I present two guests whose countries are in conflict. Tatyana is a Ukrainian pioneer of family mediation and has stayed in Ukraine. Sergey Ponomarev is an award-winning Russian photographer and has left Russia. This episode includes readings of two letters written by Tatyana. The letters are about…

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March 10, 2025

"I wanted to humanize them" Guest: Jo Berry | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Jo Berry is Founder of ‘Building Bridges for Peace’ and works to resolve conflict around the world. Sixteen years after her father was killed by an IRA bomb, Jo met with the man responsible after he was released from prison and left the IRA. Their initial meeting led…

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March 10, 2025

Managers Need Conflict Coaching Guest: Cinnie Noble | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Cinnie Noble is a pioneer of conflict management coaching. Cinnie explains what one-to-one conflict coaching/conflict management coaching is and why it is needed to help people make the shift from reaction to reflection; to response and resilience. This then allows them to become a better version of themselves…

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March 9, 2025

Evlat acısını bağışlayarak yaşamak Konuk: Figen Murray | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Figen Murray, Manchester Arena bombalamasında oğlu Martyn Hett'i kaybetti. Bundan çok kısa bir süre sonra katili bağışladı. Kendisi ile bağışlamak ne demek; niye bağışlamak istedi; bu karara nasıl tepkiler aldı ve teröre karşı neler yaptığını konuştuk. Murray çalışmalarıyla hem ödül aldı hem de İngiltere'de bir kanun değişikliğinin yolunu açtı. Episode…

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March 9, 2025

"Restorative justice changed my memory" Guest: Ailbhe Griffith | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Ailbhe Griffith is an advocate for restorative justice in cases of serious violence, including sexual violence, as well as an Ambassador for Restorative Justice International (RJI). She explains how the restorative justice mediation process changed her life for the better and why the criminal justice system failed her.…

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March 9, 2025

Onarıcı adaletin faydaları Konuk: Galma Akdeniz | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Devletin ceza yargılaması yapmasının toplumlarda yarattığı sonuçlar neler? Suç mağdurları açısından ne tür sorunlar bulunuyor? Failler bakımından ne gibi sorunlar var? Onarıcı adalet mekanizmaları buna karşın ne sağlayabilir? Bir çok ülkede nasıl ortaya çıktı? Türkiye’de ceza davalarındaki uzlaştırma niye onarıcı adaletle ilgili değil? Bosna’da toplumlar arasındaki iyileşmenin nasıl sağlanabilir? Episode…

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March 8, 2025

Ceza yargılaması toplumsal yüzleşme alanı değil Konuk: Onur Bakıner | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Geçiş dönemi adaleti nedir; nasıl ortaya çıkmıştır; yargı varken böyle bir adalet arayışı niye lazımdır; farklı ülke örnekleri nelerdir; geçiş dönemi adaleti Türkiye’de nasıl uygulanabilir; hangi konulara öncelik vermek gerekir? Episode link: https://play.headliner.app/episode/6665327?utm_source=youtube

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March 8, 2025

Dönüşüm koçluğu nedir? Konuk: Rana Beri | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Dönüşüm koçluğu nedir; kişinin kendi değerlerini fark etmesinin, dinlemesinin ihtilaf çözümü alanında ona nasıl bir faydası olabilir; özellikle ilişkilerde anda kalmak nedir gibi konuları ele aldık. Episode link: https://play.headliner.app/episode/6083936?utm_source=youtube

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March 8, 2025

Kampüs ombudsluğu nedir? Konuk: Gizem Güray | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Kampüs veya öğrenci ombudsluğu, ABD ve Avrupa'da giderek daha fazla görülmeye başladı. Peki bu nedir; niye ortaya çıktı? Türkiye'nin ilk üniversite ombudsu olan Altınbaş Üniversitesi ombudsu Gizem Güray, öğrenciler ombudsluğa hangi sorunlar için başvuruyor ve Türkiye’de bu kurumun geleceği nedir gibi soruları cevapladı. Episode link: https://play.headliner.app/episode/5835669?utm_source=youtube

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March 7, 2025

Hostage negotiation helps resolve crisis incidents Guest: Jack Cambria | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest is a retired member of the New York City Police Department and is a trainer to police officers from many countries. He has had experience in many high profile cases including hostage cases. He explains what hostage negotiation is, why this alternative style of policing (compared with tactical…

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March 7, 2025

Arabuluculuk ve çocuk koruma Konuk: Nazlı Matt | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Türkiye’de aile arabuluculuğu sık sık gündeme gelmesine rağmen konuyu çocukların yüksek yararı veya refahı üstünden konuşmuyoruz. Florida'da çocuk korumada arabuluculuktan nasıl faydalanılıyor? Hizmet planı nedir? Çocuk koruma alanında arabuluculuk yapmak için hukuk okumak veya vatandaşlık niye gerekli değil? Arabuluculuk etik kurallarının amacı nedir? Episode link: https://play.headliner.app/episode/4421283?utm_source=youtube

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March 7, 2025

Pain is The Motivator to Forgive Guest: Marina Cantacuzino | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Marina Cantacuzino is the Founder of The Forgiveness Project, an award-winning journalist, peace activist and podcaster of ‘The F Word Podcast’. Marina talks about how her charity ‘The Forgiveness Project’ was established in response to the war in Iraq and how it evolved. She also describes how to…

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March 6, 2025

Ombuds Have Helped Universities to Become Compassionate Guest: Tom Kosakowski |...

My guest Tom Kosakowski is Health Sciences Ombuds at the University of Southern California. Tom explains how ombuds programs were initiated in the US in the late 1960’s and how they have evolved and progressed over time by serving all stakeholders. He also talks about how the changing university student…

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March 6, 2025

Conflict Prevention is Conflict Resolution Guest: Colin Rule | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest is Colin Rule- CEO and President of Mediate.com, Mediator Trainer and Consultant. Colin explains how online dispute resolution systems (ODR) first came about in the late 90’s when e-commerce took off and his experiences working on disputes and building the resolution centre at eBay. With all these millions…

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March 6, 2025

It's Time For Police Mediation Guest: Maria Volpe | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Maria Volpe is a Professor of Sociology and the Director of the Dispute Resolution Program and the Center at John Jay College of Criminal Justice, at the City University of New York. Since she established one of the largest list servers in the world about conflict resolution after the 9/11…

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March 5, 2025

Is Organisational Ombudspersons The Future? Guest: Giuseppe De Palo | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest Giuseppe DePalo was the Ombudsperson for United Nations Funds and Programmes. He describes what the UN’s ombuds office does to prevent and resolve work-related disputes (i.e sexual harassment) and why this is needed outside the court system. He talks about the importance of considering mediation to resolve conflict…

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