Conflict is part of life. How do you solve it?

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March 21, 2025

Kartalkaya'da yargı niye çözüm olamıyor? Konuk: Ulaş Karan | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Bolu Kartalkaya’da yaşananlar ertesi mağdur aileleri hızla bir araya geldiler, acılarını paylaştılar. Aynı zamanda adalet arayışı için yargıya yönlendirildiler. Konuğum Ulaş Karan, mağdurların yargıya yönlendirilmesinin onları yıllar sürecek bir hukuk labirentinin içine sokacağı ve bu sürecin başlı başına insanlık dışı olduğunu ifade etti. Karan, bunun sadece Türkiye’de değil başka ülkelerde…

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March 20, 2025

What can we do about what happened to us? Guests: Roland Prevot, Olenka Czarnocki |...

In this episode, I am talking to two persons from Retissons du Lien (Weaving links), a group established in Belgium following the terror attacks in Brussels in 2016. The group brought together unlikely people. Those who were bereaved by or were survivors of the attacks came together with the families…

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March 20, 2025

How is faith relevant to conflict? Guest: Zaza Johnson Elsheikh | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, I sat down with Zaza Johnson Elsheikh, a seasoned interfaith mediator, to delve into the complexities of mediation in the context of the Sudanese conflict. Zaza shares her personal journey into interfaith mediation, sparked by an incident of bias and misunderstanding, and explores how her unique background…

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March 20, 2025

How is faith relevant to conflict? Guest: Zaza Johnson Elsheikh | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, my guest was Zaza Johnson Elsheikh, an #interfaith mediator who explained what interfaith #mediation is; the conflict in Sudan and what it means to have independent mediators/negotiators in so called #peace talks; the #humanitarian #crisis and #sexual #violence surrounding this conflict; as well as feelings like #shame…

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March 19, 2025

Apps: the new tools in conflict resolution Guest: John Ford | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, I spoke with John Ford who has develop a self help app called “The Empathy Set (https://www.empathyset.com/)”. We discussed with him what it means to be conflict competent; how an app can help people become conflict competent; whether the development of various apps can go beyond self…

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March 19, 2025

Kamu denetçiliği bir hak arama kurumu Konuk: Fatma Benli Yalçın | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Bu bölümde, Türkiye'deki Ombudsmanlık (Kamu Denetçiliği Kurumu)'ndaki denetçilerden birisi olan Av. Dr. Fatma Benli Yalçın ile Türkiye’de kamu denetçiliğine neden ihtiyaç olduğunu; hak aramada mahkemelerin neden yeterli olmadığını; kamu denetçiliğini tanıtmak için neler yaptıklarını; en çok hangi konularda başvuru aldıklarını ve örnek kararlarını; özellikle son dönemde yurtdışında yerine getirdikleri görevleri…

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March 19, 2025

They don't want money, they want an apology Guest: Rob Behrens | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

It is known that public services have been under strain in the UK and people are seeking solutions to their problems through various venues. Then, why are there so many ombudspersons while only 17% of the people know what an ombuds does? Why can this system not be reformed despite…

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March 18, 2025

Elderly mediation: What, why and how Guest: Sara Barnes | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Life has changed considerably since we are no longer living in agrarian societies. While fertility rates are falling everywhere, people also live longer thanks to advances in medicine. What does this extended lifespan mean for people's conflicts later in life? In this episode, Sara Barnes explained the types of disputes…

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March 18, 2025

Nasıl hakem olunur? Konuk: Simel Sarıalioğlu | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Simel Sarıalioğlu, kısa bir süre önce hem kendisi hem Türkiye adına kısa bir zaman önce büyük bir başarıya imza atarak, ICC Milletlerarası Ticaret Odası Tahkim Divanı’na seçildi. Onunla ICC'ye seçilme sürecini; ICC’nin nasıl bir kurum olduğunu; ICC’de daha önce yüklendiği görevleri; bu göreve dek neler yaptığını ve hakemlik yapmak isteyen…

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March 18, 2025

Can ombuds do anything for student protests? Guest: Tom Kosakowski | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

The war in Gaza led to many student protests in university campuses in the US and beyond. Many universities that were involved in the protests had ombudspersons for handling conflict in campuses. Yet, we did not see them getting involved and helping stakeholders. In this episode, we discussed the reasons…

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March 17, 2025

Mediation as foreign policy, the case of Turkey Guest: Spyros Sofos | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Turkey's mediator role seems to have started in the Balkans in the 1990s. Thanks to its cultural affinities with the region, its military officers stationed there were asked to serve as mediators in local communities. Later, as a kin-state, this expanded to CIS countries and to its neighbors. Seen more…

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March 17, 2025

STK anlaşmazlıklarında öz yardım Konuk: Cihan Koral | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Sivil toplum kuruluşları ve diğer kuruluşlar anlaşmazlık yaşadığında yokmuş gibi mi yapar; biriktirip üstüne mi yatar; hiyerarşiden mi medet umar? STKlar için kapasite geliştirme, çatışma çözümü, değişim yönetim sistemleri gibi konularda çalışan konuğum STKlar hangi konularda öz yardıma ihtiyaç duyuyor; kuruluşlarda kutuplaşma ve çatışma yaşandığında beraber varolma adına ne yapılabilir;…

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March 17, 2025

We survived and told our stories Guest: Jasminko Halilovic | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

After the war in Bosnia was finished in 1995, there were many projects about the war where soldiers, journalists and politicians told their story. However, for those who were children at the time, there was none. The invitation of Jasminko Halilovic who decided to create a platform for children to…

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March 16, 2025

Justice can be trauma informed Guest: Gael Cochrane | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, I spoke with Gael Cochrane who works at Community Justice Scotland as a Learning, development and innovation Lead. She explained what it means to have a trauma-informed practice involving issues such as empathy; choice; empowerment; trust and collaboration; why this is needed; how someone working in the…

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March 16, 2025

Conflict resolution is another life skill Guest: Ilan Bass | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, I spoke with Ilan Bass from UK who is a community mediator. He explained what community mediation is; how he got involved in it; and gave examples of community mediation cases in neighborly disputes such as noise; life style clash; pets and boundaries while also taking about…

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March 16, 2025

Arabuluculuk: İmkanlar, başarılar, eksikler Konuk: Aşiyan Süleymanoğlu | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Müzakere ve arabuluculuk eğitimi almak, bir kişinin kariyerinde ne tür farklı imkanlara kapı açar? Süleymanoğlu kendi kariyerinden çeşitli örnekler verdi. Türkiye’de son on yılda arabuluculuk kanunu sayesinde neler başarıldığına değindi. İlerleme gösterilmesi gereken alanlar arasında eğitimler; ekonomik sıkıntıların işin nitelikli yapılması ile uyuşmaması; interdisipliner olunmaması ve arabuluculuğa meraksız yaklaşılması; yapay…

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March 15, 2025

Kolaylaştırıcılık bir katılım yolu Konuk: Sema Alpan Atamer | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Bu bölümde kolaylaştırıcılık nedir ve çok katılımcılı süreçlerde ne işe yarardan başladık. Şirket olsun apartman toplantısı veya işyeri olsun bir kolaylaştırıcı eşliğinde toplantı yapmanın nasıl katılımcı ve daha kolay uygulanan, kavgasız sonuçlar yaratabileceği konuşuldu. Türkiye'de çevre konusunda devletle toplum arasında başvurulmuş bir projeden kolaylaştırıcılık örnekleri verildi. Episode link: https://play.headliner.app/episode/17865152?utm_source=youtube

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March 15, 2025

Disputes do not need escalation Guest: Alper Koç | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Released on the Centenary of the Republic of Türkiye, in this episode I am talking to Alper Koç who is an entertainment media lawyer. He will tell us the different approaches taken to conflicts in the entertainment media business whether it is between talent and business or business to business.…

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March 15, 2025

Quick fixes don't work at schools Guest: Belinda Hopkins | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, my guest was Belinda Hopkins who is the director of Transforming Conflict. We discussed how a restorative approach through circles can help students build relationships and values at schools. This would hence help with conflicts at school whether with fellow students or teachers but also among members…

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March 14, 2025

Reconciliation is not for the past Guest: Nergis Canefe | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

For over 100 years, the Canadian government in cooperation with the churches has taken away indigenous children from their families never to return them. They assimilated them, changed their religion and did much more. My guest Nergis Canefe explained how this was done and after all the pain and loss…

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March 14, 2025

Sanatçı ilişki de yönetiyor Konuk: Işıl Eğrikavuk | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Sanatçı ve hoca Işıl Eğrikavuk, toplumsal sanat işleri yapıyor. Bunlar başkalarıyla işbirliğine ve üretime dayanıyor. Ama ne sanat eğitimi ne de piyasa mekanizmaları anlaşmazlığa açık değil. Yıllar içinde başkaları ile bu süreçte neler yaşıyor; ortaya çıkan anlaşmazlıkları çözmek için neler yaptığını fark ediyor ve bu anlaşmazlık çözme kaslarını nasıl geliştirmek…

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March 14, 2025

Unresolved Trauma Goes to The Next Generations Guest: Angela Findlay | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

In this episode, I interviewed the Anglo-German artist Angela Findlay who with her amazing book 'In My Grandfather's Shadow" talked about her German grandfather who was a general in the German army. She described how trauma, guilt and shame get transferred inter-generationally; how to forgive parents; what needs to be…

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March 13, 2025

Conflict During Crisis And How to Handle it Guest: David Faro | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

My guest in this episode is David Faro. He and I talked about crisis management and especially what happens in a crisis that may lead to conflict; how to improve communication and learning from a crisis. He explained how time pressure and high stakes can cause curse of knowledge especially…

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March 13, 2025

Time is Ticking for Listening to Women Guest: Andrea Kupfer Schneider | Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay

Andrea Kupfer Schneider is a Professor of Law and Director of the Kukin Program for Conflict Resolution at Cardozo School of Law. She taught ADR, Negotiation, Ethics and International Conflict Resolution for over two decades. She co-authored several textbooks and books in the field. She explained how negotiation skills were…

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