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Oct. 2, 2024

"They don't want money, they want an apology" Guest: Rob Behrens

Welcome to the newest episode of "Anlaşabiliriz-WeCanFindAWay"! This time, Idil Elverich sits down with Sir Rob Behrens to discuss the UK's ombudsman system, its fractured structure, and the urgent need for reform. Tune in to hear about significant cases and the challenges faced by whistleblowers. Don't miss this enlightening conversation.…

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Sept. 17, 2024

Three categories of elderly people/Üç yaşlı kategorisi var

Life has changed considerably since we are no longer living in agrarian societies. While fertility rates are falling everywhere, people also live longer thanks to advances in medicine. What does this extended lifespan mean for people's conflicts later in life? In this episode, Sara Barnes explained the types of disputes…

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Sept. 8, 2024

Tahkim avukatlığı diye bir şey var mı?

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July 28, 2024

Yolu tıkasa da başkasına ait araca niye müdahale etmemeliyiz?

Yürümemiz için ayrılmış olan bir yerde park etmiş bir araba çoğumuzu kızdırıyor, değil mi? İşte bu videoda araca kendimiz müdahale edersek, bunun nasıl hukuki sonuçları olur anlatılıyor. Peki aracın lastiklerini indirmek, patlatmak yahut araca başka türlü zarar vermek dışında ne yapabiliriz? Bunları da ele aldık.

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July 7, 2024

Can ombuds do anything for student protests? Guest: Tom Kosakowski

The war in Gaza led to many student protests in university campuses in the US and beyond. Many universities that were involved in the protests had ombudspersons for handling conflict in campuses. Yet, we did not see them getting involved and helping stakeholders. In this episode my guest Tom Kosakowski…

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June 12, 2024

Turkey as a mediator in international conflicts?

Ever wondered how Turkey’s history influences its modern-day foreign policy? This episode delves into Turkey’s #mediation efforts in regions like Somalia, Balkans and other parts of the Horn of Africa that started with military presence and local communities’ requests as an honest broker. Scholar Spyros Sofos shares his research findings…

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May 5, 2024

STK anlaşmazlıklarında öz yardım

Sivil toplum kuruluşları ve diğer kuruluşlar anlaşmazlık yaşadığında yokmuş gibi mi yapar; biriktirip üstüne mi yatar; hiyerarşiden mi medet umar? STKlar için kapasite geliştirme, çatışma çözümü, değişim yönetim sistemleri gibi konularda çalışan konuğum Cihan Koral ile STKlar hangi konularda öz yardıma ihtiyaç duyuyor; kuruluşlarda kutuplaşma ve çatışma yaşandığında beraber varolma…

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March 2, 2024

What difficulties do people with trauma have?

In this episode of my podcast WeCanFindAWay, I spoke with Gael Cochrane who works at Community Justice Scotland as a Learning, development and innovation Lead. She explained what it means to have a trauma-informed practice involving issues such as safety; choice; collaboration; empowerment and trust. She also said why this…

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Feb. 28, 2024

Hayvan sahiplenmeyi teşvik etmek için nasıl bir dil lazım?

Sokakta hasta yahut sakat halde bulduğu hayvanlar için uğraşan birçok insan var. Bunca uğraş sonucu onların iyileştiğini görünce aynı zamanda bir ailenin onları sahiplenmesini istiyorlar. Bunu yaparken kullandıkları dil, daha önce hiç evcil hayvanı olmamış insanları bunu yapmaya nasıl teşvik edebilir? Umutsuzluk belirtmek fayda sağlar mı diye Davranış Bilimleri alanında…

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Feb. 3, 2024

Conflict resolution is another life skill Guest: Ilan Bass

In this episode of #WeCanFindAWay I spoke with Ilan Bass from UK who is a #community #mediator. He explained what community mediation is; how he got involved in it; and gave examples of community mediation cases in neighborly disputes such as noise; life style clash; pets and boundaries while also…

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Jan. 2, 2024

Bir katılım aracı olarak kolaylaştırıcılık Konuk: Sema Alpan Atamer

Bu bölümde arabuluculuk becerilerinin, kolaylaştırıcılık adı verilen süreçte nasıl kullanılabileceğini ele aldım. Kolaylaştırıcılık nedir ve şirket olsun apartman toplantısı veya işyeri olsun ne işe yarar? Bir kolaylaştırıcı eşliğinde toplantı yapmak katılımcı ve daha kolay uygulanan, kavgasız sonuçları nasıl yaratır konuştuk. Türkiye'de çevre konusunda devletle toplum arasında başvurulmuş bir projeden kolaylaştırıcılık…

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Jan. 2, 2024

Arabuluculuk: İmkanlar başarılar eksikler Konuk: Aşiyan Süleymanoğlu

Müzakere ve arabuluculuk eğitimi almak, bir kişinin kariyerinde ne tür farklı imkanlara kapı açar? Bu bölümde Aşiyan Süleymanoğlu kendi kariyerinden çeşitli örnekler verdi. Aynı zamanda, Türkiye’de son on yılda arabuluculuk kanunu sayesinde neler başarıldığına değindi. Bunlardan bir tanesi de hukuk fakültelerinde dahi okutulmayan ama aslında ülkedeki kadına karşı şiddet sorunuyla…

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Nov. 6, 2023

Disputes do not need escalation Guest: Alper Koc

Released on the Centenary of the Republic of Türkiye, in this episode talked to Alper Koç who is an entertainment media lawyer. He talked about the different approaches taken to conflicts in the entertainment media business whether it is between talent and business or business to business. He gave examples…

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Oct. 12, 2023

Şiddet dili savunuculukta etkisiz

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Sept. 27, 2023

Conflicts at school: empathy first

My guest of the episode in the picture, Belinda Hopkins, the director of Transforming Conflict explained how a restorative approach through circles can help students build relationships and values at schools. This would hence help with conflicts at school whether with fellow students or teachers but also among members of…

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Sept. 11, 2023

How to make land acknowledgement Guest: Nergis Canefe

For over 100 years, the Canadian government in cooperation with the churches has taken away indigenous children from their families never to return them. They assimilated them, changed their religion and did much more. My guest Prof. Nergis Canefe explained how this was done and after all the pain and…

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Sept. 11, 2023

Kamuoyu açıklaması nasıl olmalı?

Türkiye’de sık sık kişiler veya kurumlar, toplumun önemsediği konularda kamuoyu açıklaması yapar. Toplumla yaşanan bazı anlaşmazlıkları gidermek amacıyla yapılan bu açıklamalar nasıl olmalı? Kime ve neye odaklanmalı? Açıklama yapmak durumunda kalmadan ÖNCE ne yapmalısınız? Üslup ve araç nasıl seçilmeli? İşte bunları ele aldım. Buna dair yazdığım iki yazı aşağıda linklerde.…

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June 25, 2023

The trauma of perpetrators/bystanders Guest: Angela Findlay

In this episode, I interviewed the Anglo-German artist Angela Findlay who with her amazing book 'In My Grandfather's Shadow" talked about her German grandfather who was a general in the German army. She described how trauma, guilt and shame get transferred inter-generationally; how to forgive parents; what needs to be…

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June 19, 2023

It's impossible to have harmonious relationships Guest: David Silvera

Mediator, trainer and activist, my guest Dr. David Silvera has been involved in developing mediation as an alternative form of dispute resolution in Israel since 1998. He explains what transformative mediation is, how it originated in America and how it utilises pragmatic, transformative and narrative theories to advance the mediation…

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June 18, 2023

Pain is the Motivator to forgive Guest: Marina Cantacuzino

My guest Marina Cantacuzino is the Founder of The Forgiveness Project, an award-winning journalist, peace activist and podcaster of ‘The F Word Podcast’. Marina talks about how her charity ‘The Forgiveness Project’ was established in response to the war in Iraq and how it evolved. She also describes how to…

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June 18, 2023

Conflict Prevention is Conflict Resolution Guest: Colin Rule

My guest is Colin Rule- CEO and President of Mediate.com, Mediator Trainer and Consultant. Colin explains how online dispute resolution systems (ODR) first came about in the late 90’s when e-commerce took off and his experiences working on disputes and building the resolution centre at eBay. With all these millions…

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June 18, 2023

The time for police mediation has come Guest: Maria Volpe

Maria Volpe is a Professor of Sociology and the Director of the Dispute Resolution Program and the Center at John Jay College of Criminal Justice, at the City University of New York. Since she established one of the largest list servers in the world about conflict resolution after the 9/11…

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June 18, 2023

What does a campus ombuds do? Guest: Tom Kosakowski

Tom Kosakowski is the first Ombuds for the Health Sciences Campus at the University of Southern California. Tom explains how ombuds programs were initiated in the US in the late 1960’s and how they have evolved and progressed over time by serving all stakeholders. He also talks about how the…

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June 7, 2023

What happens when you are traumatized? #humanbehavior #trauma

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